Imagine hearing the doorbell at a friend’s house. You answer the door and tell your friend someone is there for him. When he gets to the door he gets punched in the face. Furious he yells and screams at you saying it’s all your fault. “You shouldn’t have opened the door”. This is a typical example of how the blame game works. Instead of getting mad at the person who just swole his jaw up he takes his anger out on his friend. He more than likely would’ve got punched regardless, how is it your fault? You didn’t tell the guy to hit him. The same kinds of tactics go on in the music industry.  (more…)